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Originally Posted by Spiritual  Interesting! I think it also depends on how your values are being respected within that group. If they would totally run over you and disrepect you for being more quiet than them, I think it would be different. |
Well, I did not have "groups". In fact, there are only 2 such girls - one was my best friend in high school and the other is a more recent friend. They are both so similar and a laugh riot
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I'm mostly attracted (relationship wise) to folks who are not loud like "attraction whores",
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ahaa...you're the "attention whore" guy from the other thread?
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But I also hang around with (mostly girls) who are quieter and shyer aswell, we fill the gap most of the times. They do the work and I do the talking, cause I'm more of the talker
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Yes, that's another side effect. If someone who likes to talk finds someone quiet who listens... I have a couple regular ones. Most of them don't care about me, but just have to tell me their "stuff." In fact, as I write this, I have one IM-ing me at this very moment
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I was extending the shyness also into relationships, but when I see your opinion I can relate to that. But there are plenty of people who are shy in a happy relationship,
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Well, for me, I can't express myself fully to anyone, only when alone, and if I have a relationship, it has to be with someone I feel comfortable expressing myself fully with. There are certain types of personalities that I can never be free with.
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most of the time also sexual wise. Actually a lot of shy and subjective persons like to be dominant sexual wise, and the dominant ones want to be subjective. Quite interesting that both parties like each other's part in a certain situation.
Not to imply that shyness also means subjective, but it often goes hand in hand.
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I think you mean shy and submissive? I don't know...I guess I've heard that too.
I have a big problem with indecision...a big, big problem...it seems to get bigger the longer I live...
I feel sort of bad that we took this thread over from RichGrad...
