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Originally Posted by Spiritual  Ofcourse this is all to be traced back to the time where I was bullied and ran over every day. I felt powerless, not understood and lonely. Probably what you experienced the same in some degree. |
Yes, I was bullied too. Things were better in high school, though, because I changed school districts. My bullying only served to make me even more shy and scared of people though.
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If we talk about shyness in relationships
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Well, not sure what good it is to be shy in a relationship. Why have the relationship if you don't feel safe to be yourself in it, just stay alone, you can at least be yourself alone. I would choose being alone to being in a relationship I didn't feel safe to be myself in.
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Have you noticed this within yourself that when you have been on one side of spectrum a while you start to desire the other side?
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Well, I don't know. I've never been at the powerful end, but I've been falling head over heels in my life to try to get there.
It's interesting to note that the only sort of female friends I managed to get all these years were always very loud and dominating personalities. I get along very well with girls like that, and it's mutual.