You'll see exactly what you expect to see...
The room illusion
Now apply what you see here, to the expectation you have for IM... Do you expect IM to work or to not work...
Life's like a ride in an amusement park, and when you go on it you think it's real, because that's how powerful our minds are. The ride goes up, down and round and round, it has thrills and chills, it's brightly colored, it's very loud and It's fun for a while...
Some have been on the ride for a while and they begin to question "is this real or is this just a ride" and other people have remembered and they come back to us and they say "hey, don't worry about it, cuz this is just a ride"