Perhaps your intuition's goal wasn't the man, it was experiences or something else you gained following that gut feeling about the man. It knew what would get your attention. Plenty of times I've had to let go of what I thought the outcome was supposed to be, because the journey itself, and everything learned along the way, was the goal.
If you lose your attachment to the one outcome - you with this person - can you appreciate the gifts you did get?
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