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mustard76 · 12-13-2007, 06:55 PM

There is a lot good advice in this forum already so I'll just tell you the 2 tricks that worked for me in high school.

I learned that everybody has an emotional need. All you have to do is figure out quickly what a girl's emotional need is and shamelessly fill it for her.

I met girls who thought they were dumb and I told them they were smart.

I knew a girl who confided in me that she never had a date on valentines day so I planned something special for her on Valentines day (we weren't even dating).

I met girls who thought they were fat and I became the guy who told them they looked skinny.

The trick is to figure out each girl's unique emotional need and fill it. Everyone will need something different and you'll have to figure it out quickly and hammer at it.

This worked for me.

The second trick was not to be afraid of rejection. If you are willing ask 10 girls out you will be rejected 8 times but you'll get 2 dates! This is the 2 of 10 rule. All you have to do is accept rejection as a cost of doing business. Once again, this worked for me. I've been rejected more times than I can count, but I've had several solid relationships and now I'm happily married to the love of my life.

Before you use these tricks you have to be in a good place emotionally. Remember that you need to work on your confidence and listen to Steve's advice above. Focus on being a good boyfriend now and you'll attract a girlfriend without my tricks.

12-13-2007, 06:55 PM	#45 (permalink)
mustard76 Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Boston, MA Posts: 173	There is a lot good advice in this forum already so I'll just tell you the 2 tricks that worked for me in high school. I learned that everybody has an emotional need. All you have to do is figure out quickly what a girl's emotional need is and shamelessly fill it for her. I met girls who thought they were dumb and I told them they were smart. I knew a girl who confided in me that she never had a date on valentines day so I planned something special for her on Valentines day (we weren't even dating). I met girls who thought they were fat and I became the guy who told them they looked skinny. The trick is to figure out each girl's unique emotional need and fill it. Everyone will need something different and you'll have to figure it out quickly and hammer at it. This worked for me. The second trick was not to be afraid of rejection. If you are willing ask 10 girls out you will be rejected 8 times but you'll get 2 dates! This is the 2 of 10 rule. All you have to do is accept rejection as a cost of doing business. Once again, this worked for me. I've been rejected more times than I can count, but I've had several solid relationships and now I'm happily married to the love of my life. Before you use these tricks you have to be in a good place emotionally. Remember that you need to work on your confidence and listen to Steve's advice above. Focus on being a good boyfriend now and you'll attract a girlfriend without my tricks.