[Rosie]

That's totally true. I can't make the judgment that he is always negative based on this one post. I've written many negative threads myself, so I shouldn't be one to talk. However, I think that the reason he isnt' getting a girlfriend, might partially be due to his attitude.

"I don’t talk to many girls because if you make friends with a girl nothing will EVER happen. I speak from experience."

Ofcourse you're not going to get a girlfriend if you don't talk to them. Many girls prefer to form a friendship first, before they commit to relationship.

"Most people will tell you to just be yourself. Umm be myself Myself is the guy that cant get a girlfriend in the first place."

Women are generally attracted to men who are happy, and positive. When I wasn't having any luck with love, I tried to focus on how I could change my outlook, inorder to become more desirable, as opposed to focusing on the negative.

I can understand being sad and down, I mean who wouldn't. No body wants to be alone. It sounds like you're a decent guy from your description, so there has to be reason why you aren't getting a girlfriend. The problem is probably really obvious. Perhaps you aren't expressing your interest, or maby you're not exposing yourself to situations that could to lead to potential relationships. Try to identify the problem, and then focus on fixing it.