It's just a matter of becoming a more positive person.
Take the ten day positivity challenge and become a positive thinker. You have many good things, like speaking your mind and being unstifled, but negative people are scared...they have an ego they're trying to protect. I'm not saying positive people do not, just that the negative person's ego is fear-based.
Being positive is a default state. It's how you're born. But then you grow older, and you start needing to rationalize your confidence and sense of self because the default wasn't enough. Mostly it's social conditioning that does this and gives you a sense of lack. And in order to remove that sense of lack, you obviously need to have society's pinnacle, the one they lay out for you. Which you can observe if you've ever watched Pimp My Ride.
Of course that's all good, but it'll never in and of itself fulfill you. That must come from within. And negative people are never fulfilled, never complete, always defending themselves from something, always searching for some form of means to happiness.
So become a positive thinker. Do this by taking the ten day positivity challenge. You must think only positive and constructive thoughts for ten days, straight. If you think negativ for more than 2 minutes...CLICK! Restart. See how many times you restart.
There is also an additional component that I'm adding for you, that falls under the other stuff but should be emphasized. Look for the good qualities in eveyr single person you meet. This will allow you to learn things from them that other people will invariably miss, which will set you apart from the billions of people running around with some identity to protect and those running away from fear and what they don't want.
You're rewiring all the BS society's put into your head. When you become a more positive person, your world...will change. Greatly. Magnificently. So join the challenge. PM me if you want, I did this a few months ago and I changed profoundly.  |