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Old 12-11-2007, 03:21 PM   #7 (permalink)
Lola
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Originally Posted by ellie View Post
Just wanting to find out how PD has helped people turn their life around? Has anyone made significant changes in their life for the better?

I need hope - tehe!
Back on topic!

A little over two years ago, I was still in a marriage with an abuser. (It took me half my life to figure out that it was what it was because he was the mental/emotional type of beater, rather than physical). I was tired, scared, hopeless, overweight, physically ill, completely lacking in self-confidence, clinically depressed, and borderline suicidal. I had begun to buy into his version of me and did not believe I could make it on my own, or that I even had a right to.

I am now single for two years and have lived completely on my own for the first time ever. I am self-supportive. I've lost weight and regained a higher level of physical activity. I've gone back to school (something that was always *impossible* in my marriage). I am happy, peaceful, and engaged in life. I have purpose. I look, act and feel younger, healthier and more alive than I did 10 years ago. I have conquered fears that I once believed would destroy me.

Thanks for starting this thread, ellie! I needed to remind myself how far I've come!
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