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Old 12-11-2007, 07:33 AM   #5 (permalink)
JimOfferman
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Originally Posted by WhteRabbit View Post
My former best friend stated she was a lesbian (after the incident with my former boyfriend). But recently, at a gathering, she spoke in a raised voice, made eye contact with my boyfriend and stated that she's bisexual. My boyfriend then responded with suprise, "really?? I didn't know that..." and dwelled on the thought for awhile.

To your second question, honestly, I'm not sure he would have a problem with it.
Please stop enabling this woman. By making such a big deal out of everything she says and does, you are giving her tremendous power over you. She now has the ability to make you miserable with mere words. It doesn't even matter anymore whether or not she is actually out to ruin your life. You're set to do that all by yourself! Don't. Don't become a victim to such social paranoia.

On a similar note, stop doubting your boyfriend. So he dwelled on the thought that his sister's date is bisexual. Big deal! If you start reading into everything and over-analyzing every word, sooner or later you'll paint yourself into a corner. You're destroying the basis of trust in your relationship and once that is gone, the relationship is doomed.
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