Yeah about that...make sure that you don't do it to make it "work", because that's outcome dependence and it sucks and then does not work...like when you do it to "work" because you need this super-magic-pill method because you by yourself is not enough...then it ceases to work. It is an EXPRESSION of your CORE and INTERNAL STATE. So you really are unreactive, because you really don't care, and then you are free to give value without concern and amuse yourself. See what I'm getting at? |