Bring it up with him; it sounds like he genuinely enjoys being with you and would be receptive to a talk.
If you do bring it up, refrain from placing any blame or acting crazy (sudden movements and raised voices) - that has always turned my sensitive listening ears *off*. Be diplomatic and let him know that this is an issue for you and that you want comfort.
I know that if my girlfriend is being diplomatic and calm while she is bringing up something that bothers her I tend to try and work out a solution for it as if she were asking me why her car won't start - remind him that you want comfort not necessarily a solution. Oddly, in this case though it seems that comfort *is* the solution, so that might just go hand in hand anyways....
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