[Billy]

I understand your problem completely, because if we are suffering and it is so unpleasant in any form then why the hell did we enter it in the first place? It cannot be a conscious action, if I am diagnosed with cancer and my treatment is intense chemotherapy which involves much suffering and pain then why did I enter it in the first place since I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy? There is no conscious involvement in these descisions so it can not be me making them unless I am of an extremely self harming personality. These supposedly wise people say that we must accept suffering in order to grow but I say that we must endure suffering in order to grow. There is a big destinction between the two and anyone who believes otherwise is deluding themselves.