Originally Posted by Bliss Sage
It would also be awful to waste this one day we have together having sex instead of talking, which we so desperately need to do.
I don't know what to do.
Wait until you get married - seriously, it will iron itself out. I know that's not that complete of an answer. I jumped the gun on sex and I'm still married to the woman of my dreams, but sex before marriage has some kind of detrimental effect that I can't quite put my finger on - it's there though. Even though things seem to suck where they are, you're doing the right thing. Just work on your relationship. Sex won't fix anything that is broken w/o commitment.