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Old 12-08-2007, 02:38 AM   #15 (permalink)
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When you are feeling good and ready to get back on the horse, you flick an internal switch and start noticing people checking you out.
Right. Feel good, notice people checking you out---meaning, you're happy, and you're open to receiving a relationship. You couldn't be happy if you NEEDED a relationship, and that would send out those vibes of not being available. Because you're not "available" really, as in, emotionally available.
When you get to that allowing state, all good things can come to you. All this is finally sinking in for me.
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