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Originally Posted by cylon  It won't. Seems that when you love yourself first, and don't really care too much if you have a relationship, is when they start happening. Part of me wants to fight that. It's scary to let go, I feel like I should be struggling at it. But it is what it is. Happy people find relationships, period. |
I agree and disagree. When you switch off relationships to catch a breath, heal, grow, find yourself again, whatever, you send out a message of not being available. Then when you are feeling good and ready to get back on the horse, you flick an internal switch and start noticing people checking you out. That's how it has always worked for me. My switch is off at the mo, but I'm cool with that cause when I'm ready, I know it will happen. But, having said that, perhaps I should have some fun.