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Old 12-08-2007, 01:34 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by cylon View Post
I've noticed this is the same advice given to people who want relationships.
The key seems to be total detachment, while at the same time expecting things to turn out well for you. So you're in a state of allowing, and feeling good, and from there, the actions you take are natural, the logical next step, and there's no feeling of exerting yourself against resistance.

It is easier said than done but it's the same answer that keeps coming up.
This is too funny, because when I wrote the post, I thought about relationships and pure willpower will not get you anywhere. Ironically, it is easy to focus willpower externally than apply it internally.
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