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Originally Posted by Sisyphus2  I am worried not only about the pain of separation, but whether or not he will even be able to survive. He does not have anywhere else to go. He has pets that would have nowhere to go. I honestly think he will probably be dead within three months, either from effects of homelessness (illness that he can't afford to treat, frostbite from sleeping outside), or from suicide. |
Sisyphus2 your husband has no motivation to change. He knows you're going to be there no matter what. You may be willing to take responsibility for your actions but he is not for his (or lack of them in this case).
Unless you give him reason to change, he won't. Why should he? Until you are willing to stop enabling him, nothing will change, so you might as well get used to the status quo.