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Originally Posted by Angela  Bliss Sage, it sounds to me like you're absolutely terrified of being abandoned. |
I agree. But been wondering how a fear of abandonment could extend into so many different realms of life...and how is it that I
still have it...and if I get rid of it, will that fear of him leaving me afterwards go away? It's actually a really desperate kind of gripping feeling.
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Like your fear has less to do with sex than with what happens after sex.
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Exactly.
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Is this old pain, or something you saw or experienced in your childhood?
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Yes. It's a lifelong fear.
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Do you have any sexual abuse in your past?
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Not that I can remember.
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What is your relationship with your parents like?
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I ended my contact with my dad just over a year ago. With my mom...relative to us, our relationship is better than ever, but relative to mother-daughter relationships...she never really was the "mother-type".