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Ak47 · 12-06-2007, 02:03 AM

i agree- leave him if you think it will be to no end.

if he's old enough (20+) he's likely not to change his ways. it does happen, but not as often as it should; guess it depends on if you're willing to play the lottary. the big benefit is even if he never does come around after your attempt to change him.., you can always leave him later.

you need to weigh whether it's worth a bit more suffering to try some new tactics on him or not.

i'd advise that you at least give him a serious warning though (i'd expect one myself if i were in his shoes) - but don't take lame excuses or some lame romantic **** that he throws at you. i wouldn't believe him if he says he'll change either- most people don't, don't forget that. only let him think you believe what he says- but don't believe it yourself until you see it for a good several months in the least.

12-06-2007, 02:03 AM	#9 (permalink)
Ak47 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 142	i agree- leave him if you think it will be to no end. if he's old enough (20+) he's likely not to change his ways. it does happen, but not as often as it should; guess it depends on if you're willing to play the lottary. the big benefit is even if he never does come around after your attempt to change him.., you can always leave him later. you need to weigh whether it's worth a bit more suffering to try some new tactics on him or not. i'd advise that you at least give him a serious warning though (i'd expect one myself if i were in his shoes) - but don't take lame excuses or some lame romantic **** that he throws at you. i wouldn't believe him if he says he'll change either- most people don't, don't forget that. only let him think you believe what he says- but don't believe it yourself until you see it for a good several months in the least.