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Originally Posted by slinky  Also, most of them aren't very attractive to me. |
How attractive other people think you are is very much a function of how attractive you yourself believe you are.
Just for kicks, try walking around while saying "look at me, I'm so pretty" with conviction to yourself all the time.
Also, if you want to feel more attractive, make sure there are plenty of mirrors and other reflective surfaces in your house. Make it a habit to check yourself out every once and a while and tell yourself how damn fine you look!
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Maybe the people I meet can sense that I'm a loner absorbed in my own world. I worry about having to give up my freedom if I get into a real relationship. I want to live the way I want, do my own activities, and eat food that I enjoy, instead of having to bother with someone else's preferences.
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Then let it be your choice to live that way. If someone comes along who naturally fits into your loner habits, then that's great, but know you are also perfectly happy if you don't cross paths with that person.
Be you. Be happy!