I feel the same way. I'm 26 years old, been on one date, been kissed once by a creepy stranger I was dancing with (ewww), and had very few close friends. I don't dislike people. In fact, I rather like them, and recently I've met a bunch through my hobbies, but most of them don't seem interested in a closer friendship. It's the same thing when it comes to dating. Most of the guys I meet show absolutely zero interest in dating me. They barely even treat me like a girl. Also, most of them aren't very attractive to me.
Maybe the people I meet can sense that I'm a loner absorbed in my own world. I worry about having to give up my freedom if I get into a real relationship. I want to live the way I want, do my own activities, and eat food that I enjoy, instead of having to bother with someone else's preferences.
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