Oh, and Jim is right:
"happiness is an inside job"
i might suggest for both you and him to seek pleasures of the mind that are infinite. i.e. writing, reading, playing music, painting, drawing, etc
typically, not always, people are much more satisfied with life when they find some sort of art related thing they enjoy doing just for fun. (math is sometimes used too)
if there's something you enjoy doing, or have always wanted to do, you should try doing it. more importantly in this situation- your husband should be 'finding himself' and doing something he enjoys. it's not always art, some people just love cars, but everyone has a passion for doing something. i'm simply not myself if i don't play the guitar every day, for instance.
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