What Jim says is completely and utterly so.
And.... just because you love someone, that doesn't mean they're a good life partner for you. If you have a partner who is not participating at all in the well-being of your relationship, he's not really a partner. You can't make him be a partner; but if you want to generate a life you love, you'll have to take a stand for making your well-being the most important priority in your life, whether he's in it or not.
Best wishes (and be grateful you've got your parents to lean on, even if they do give you crap!)
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