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Old 12-04-2007, 07:25 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by cylon View Post
Thanks Paul, I was reading your blog earlier today and the part where you mentioned changing your routine, I'm trying. I took a different route home today, and ate at a different time. I think I'm going to do as many things differently as I can every day and just make a game out of it. I feel like I need to disorient myself a little. Seems like the right thing to do.
While you're doing things differently, recognize that while your behaviour has changed, or your pattern of behaviour has changed, you remain the same. Changing your behaviour doesn't make you any less you.

Once you play around with that for a bit, try it out internally by changing around some of your beliefs. For example, if you defend a meat-eating diet, try looking into the benefits of a vegetarian diet. Or, if you believe that baseball is the best sport in the world, and despise basketball, try changing your beliefs on that and start watching basketball for a while.

The concept will expand your awareness if you start to play with the maleable nature of our Ego selves. Think of it almost like you're an actor playing a part. Once you internally experience that you are not your beliefs, things will be much easier for you to change.

To start with, changing your route home is a good starting point
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