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Originally Posted by jlbmlsxj07  I am still very curious though what happens with the universe when two people are say, manifesting the same man or woman?  |
If you and your friend are both hoping to manifest the same man or woman; you both have already manifested that person in your lives. That person is present and real in your lives -- you have manifested herm.
If you and your friend both hope to manifest the same person as your committed, long-term, mutually beneficial, monogamous mate, then one or the other of you (or both) will be disappointed.
But there's a big difference between controlling and allowing. If you want a particular other person to do a particular thing other than what (s)he's already doing, (like be your lover) and you declare you won't be satisfied until your desired condition is present, you are being controlling. That's not a powerful way to manifest anything; that's a good way to create a space of no freedom. But let's say you and your friend both intend to manifest the perfect committed, long-term, mutually beneficial monogamous mate for each of you, and then you relax and allow that person to show up in your life (not demanding that it be a particular person, who must behave a certain way), then you are in a position of real power. You are both free, and whomever walks into your arms is free, too.
The universe offers up an abundance of the "right person" when you are being allowing, but it is going to occur to you as being very stingy if there is only one individual who will meet your stringent, controlling requirements. And of course, there you would be, mirroring the universe!