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Originally Posted by Rose of Cairo  Hi all, my new question is how to keep on vibrating high when the persons around you vibrate low?
For some reasons I'm forced to stay with my family a few weeks. They're vibrating very low all of them. They're very very nice people and I love them very much. Unfortunately they're focusing on negative things a lot, ranting and complaining all day long, they're full of fear and anger and have a scarcity mindset. I tried to talk with them about it but it was useless, they laugh at esoteric things like vibrations. They're also angry that I refuse to listen to the news every day or to talk about negative things. For them it's a duty to aknowledge reality as it is and being a coward not to do so. I also tried to talk about positive topics, but no matter what I talk about, they'll find a way to get angry about something, point out some injustice or complain...
I know why I put a thousand km between them and me... but now I have to deal with them and I feel I'm not strong enough. I'm totally exhausted, I need more and more sleep, and I gained LOTS OF weight. I feel a very strong need to eat all the time, as if I had not enough energy  I meditate, clean my chakras, deliberately focus on positive things and choose positive thougths, use the methods of Ask and it is Given and EFT... but I have to do all that for 24 hours a day to stay in a just acceptable state. I feel that it's getting worse and worse every day.
Help!!!
Do you know a way to get more energy? Or to keep my vibrations high? |
Some things that have worked for me in the past:
(1) Realise your source of energy comes from "Source", whatever name it goes by for you. Visualize your stream of energy coming to you as a stream from the ground, from the positive energy channeled by mother earth. As long as your feet are touching the ground, you have access to the source of infinite energy. Don't think the energy comes from any specific activity like reading a book or doing meditation or EFT only. Those are great, but become aware that the source of the energy is always available to you 24hours a day. Think of it this way. If you were cut off from the source of the energy, your heart would stop beating. So, if you're alive, you have access to the energy.
(2) Don't try to teach or convert people to this way of positive thinking you are just learning. You are probably not strong enough to take on a whole group of people. Perhaps one person, alone, in the right environment, you may be able to shower them with positive energy for long enough for them to want to pursue this path. A whole group at this point for you, highly unlikely.
You do not owe anyone any explanation why you don't watch the news, or why you are being positive. It's none of their business. If they say "What do you mean I don't watch the news?" Just say "I don't watch it.", and if they say "Why not?" just say "I just don't wach it." and if they say "Yeah, but why?" , just say "I don't know, I just prefer not to watch it?" and if they say "Yeah, but why don't you prefer to watch it?" just say "I don't know, I'm crazy like that I guess." and if they say "Why are you crazy like that?" just say "Anyone for milk a cookies?"
I sense that the root of your problem is trying to explain your new behaviour in a way your family and friends will understand. It's too early for that right now. Just focus on becoming a positive person, not on converting everyone to "Positivity" at this time.
(3) VIsualize a protective bubble around you in your mind. Then have saying where you can put the bubble up. For me, I visualize it and say "Shields UP!", kind of like in Star Trek. I tell my mind that when my shield is UP it doesn't eminate positive energy past the shield which surrounds my body, and it also doesn't allow negative energy to come inside.
This way, when you have your shield up, the "Negatrons" can't sense your positive energy and it doesn't make them want to attack you. See, the more positive you are, and the more negative they are, the greater the difference in energy between you two, and energy wants to from from negative to positive. Kind of like lightning. It's like the energy wants to discharge itself. People can feel this and it pisses them off at this stage of their development. They feel tension and they want to release it. If you put up your shield, it will allow you to stay positive, while not eminating positive energy out by default. Of course you can still say positive things and send positive energy at specific times whenever you want, but it simply wont' be eminating by default just by being in the same room as people.
I used to not be able to walk into a starbucks with my wife when she got her coffee. It seems like all the Ego's gather in that place. I learned this technique, put up my shield and went in. IT was so bizarre, it was almost like I was invisible. Nobody wanted to discharge their negative energy off me, they just basically ignored me. It's almost like a Romulan cloaking device.
(4) When the time is right, when you are strong enough and you have evolved to the point in your journey where your example is the best teaching lesson, they MAY begin to listen to you a bit. For now, forget about it. They'll just bring you down.
For example, just after I almost went bankrupt I got into personal development very heavily and began transforming myself. I would tell people about all this great positive stuff I was learning and all I would get bak was "Uhuh, go get a job." and negative crap like that. Then I stopped trying to convince anyone. I just went out and became successful for myself. Then all of a sudden, people wanted to listen.
Hope these help!