[homeboy]

I went to a 4 yr college and I can tell you that there is always a good and bad side to every experience, except sometimes the good ones outweigh the bad and sometimes the bad outweigh the good. But there is always one thing that you find that will always make you smile and that is your interactions with other people. You might find that you are shy and timid but that is because you haven't tried it. This is fear... to put it bluntly. You're also afraid of ending up in a dead end job, but as you will find in life, there are many people who are doing those jobs and yet they seem happy. They seem happy because they like the people they meet there.. their co workers or their customers. Especially during the holiday season, you will find workers smiling more often. You will find a purpose in life, and if not who cares! you will love the life you live and the people in it. Go out there and find out! A dead end job is not the end of the world, it gives you the chance to meet new people and gain valuable experience. I hope this has helped you, but I know from personal experience that reading something on a forum is not the same as doing it yourself. I believe this is why Steve emphasizes that you try things out for yourself.