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Originally Posted by Chris Byrnes  But what if you're stuck; what if you don't believe it? How do you get round this? How have some of the successful folk here got round it?
Is it just a case of wearing it out through attrition? I like Robert Anthony's metaphor of the glass of dirty water. He says that if you pour clean water in to the glas, at some point it will displace all the dirty water. |
I wish to differ on the underlined point taught by Robert Anthony (great teacher) and others.
It is true that eventually if you pour clean water - to follow the metaphor - into a glass tainted by some ink (for e.g.), eventually you will flush out the ink and get a clean glass of water.
But isn't it faster, more efficient and water-saving to just dump the entire glass of tainted water first and then fill up a fresh glass of clean water?
i.e. Clear the doubts and limiting beliefs and mindsets that are holding us back and immediately replacing the 'void' with more positive and constructive conditioning?
I suggest one of the fastest routes to success if you're feeling stuck - get a mentor. I mean, you don't have to pay thousands of dollars for an expert or guru in a field that your pursuing, just someone who somehow manages to do what you seek to do.
Ask him or her how they did it and if they'd be willing to teach you, show you the ropes; and you work out a barter deal with them, maybe do something for them in return - a win-win.