Quote:
Originally Posted by rikun  Hey guys,
Any suggestions what I should be doing while getting over her? I doubt I need too much time because we didn't even get to know each other properly, but still I feel the intense burn and pain in me. |
It doesn't matter how long you knew her. You've lost something very important to you, and it hurts. Don't worry, time will take care of it. It could take you a month, a year, who knows, but you'll get there, everybody does. In the meant time, keep busy. That's very important. Speak with you family and friends, organize a night out with your friends, take up a weekly class for a new hobby, start doing exercise (if you aren't already). Do activities that will take your mind away from depressing thoughts. Don't stay alone. Even taking a walk everyday is better than nothing. If you have no one to take a walk with, you can try out what I do: listen to an inspirational audiobook (Susan Jeffers, Steven Covey, etc.). It helps.
As for the work not interesting you, why did it interest you before? You say your in your 20's, and that you knew what you wanted to do before you met her. Did it involve only work? What else are you missing in life? Have you come to realize that some aspects are lacking? What about family, friends?
And I can't tell you what to do about your job, but don't do something harsh. Ask for advice in a person or two you really have confidence in, and let them guide you for a while, until you hurt less and are more able to take important decisions.