I'm not an expert but I think problems arise because of wrong choices being made. TV and the media make a terrible impression on some peoples minds. Alot of people and especially young adults have not had much guidance in their upbringing so possibly they are watching TV and are following what they see the people in these shows do, which a lot of the TV shows are about living without any moral (or standards) in their lives, therefore they make wrong choices in their relationships.
Goals.... maybe sometimes we set our goals to high and we can't reach them so we fail. I believe we have good intentions when we set our goals but maybe we are not thinking the proper possitive thoughts to accomplish our goals. There is a very good thread on this blog about a guy who set a goal that he wouldn't eat any sweats for the year of 2007 and he is keeping it. I will find it later and post it so you can read it, it's very inspiring.
Motivation.... if we are not motivated to do anything we would never get up out of bed in the morning.
I guess there are many things that can cause failures in our lives. Becoming a more possive thinker helps.
Maybe someone else can add to this....
Nancy  |