I think someone not fullfiling their role as prescribed in their job description is a different animal than what you think of them. There is an objective standard on which to base job performance whereas thinking someone is ugly or whiny or lazy is something entirely different.
I think it's fantastic not to base your own self worth on other people's opinions of you. I hope that would work both ways (that they would not base their self worth on your opinion of them). However, do not let that preclude taking/giving constructive criticism about areas where there is some objective standard to be met. Does that make sense?
PS I love your username too!
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