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Originally Posted by wolfgang  Sometimes I don't get this. Actually I don't. |
Welcome to the club.
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Originally Posted by wolfgang Is it possible to feel a memory for what it is without projecting the dismal future and to be happy that you loved? |
Yes, it's possible. No, it's not easy. It takes time and a willingness to forgo "closure," because closure is simply most often a way to get the last word.