Was everything in your past really a disaster? If you look back, you might find you've created so many great things too. And even the bad experiences resulted in something good in your life.
How did you get into personal development in the first place? Was it some kind of hardship that finally made you look at your life and say "Alright, I'm going to get a handle on things."? Would you be here, on this website if those things
hadn't happened?
Our lives aren't filled with isolated events. They're all connected. Everything happens for a reason.
