You know, I had this idea earlier yesterday. I was finding it hard to ask for "good" stuff for me (i think this may have something to do with how good you feel about yourself, but who knows), in this case for my bus to stop at just my stop (its the third one after th station) so I could get home quickly, and I realized that some of us get so finicky about asking for the littlest things and attach soooo much importnace to them, turning them into proof or non-proof whether IM exists or whether we will ever master it or if so, the possibilities are limitless, so its almost like not being able to make this bus stop at just my stop = me never having all the things I want, or something, etc. We just get too attached, especailyl me.
So, I thought, why not get reverse proof? Imagine things going bad, but bad specifically. Imagine the bus stopping at every single stop before my stop, delaying me. Or imagine missing the bus, or not finding a single parking space, etc. Plug in your own examples, preferrably something that does happen regularly, like if you get coffee at work, then create not being able to get coffee at work. It might just be easier to create this less than good stuff, and you still get hte joy of creation and the rush of creation. Might make it easier if you're particularly resistant like me.
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