impaul99
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Originally Posted by impaul99  (1) The short answer is yes. I too have had "negative" friends in my life and it felt "wrong" to abandon them. However, if you want to have a positive life you really have no choice because even if you don't "abandon" them, your positivity will piss them off so much that they won't want to hang out with you anyways. |
Yeah, I m trying to do that, feels lonely though coz then i wont have any friends; a bit insecure about being alone. Often when i m alone I wud think i ve no friends; nobody likes me..
Nevertheless, i need to stay away from them because i m a SUCH a NEGATIVE MAGNET. I ve been sucking positive energy from Stevpav podcast.I listen to that everyday and read his articles aswell as go to d forum if got problems. Thanx, I really like yur website. If u dont mind me asking, are u rich now? I assume u are successful; if u dont mind sharing story.
What happened to yur negative friends now? R they still negative? Did yur success influenced one of them?
Do u have more positive friends now than negative"?
How draining do u find negative people?? Is it possible to be shielded from negative emotions from friends and not be influenced at all, it wud be great if there are ways, coz i realised there are TOO MANY ENERGY SUCKERS out there.
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Old soul: see nothing good coming from misery, or self pity or cronic complaining, I think these people are stuck and they have no idea how draining , toxic they are on people , the best thing to do is to stop it dead in it tracks....in fact I would go as far as to say these people are not well
Yes, I m sort of like that, so therefore i m working on it now. Any clues, about stop drowning those positive people around me?
Acting Like Godot
I go off somewhere by myself and have lunch with me.
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How cud u be positive again when u are by yurself. I often feel lonely then i get negative. Dont u feel lonely? Why do i feel this way? why do i need company even if its a bad company? How to rid tis neediness:>?
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I agree with impaul99. If you change such that you are no longer a vibrational match for your friends, they will drift away anyways. By cutting back on the time you spend with them, you will open yourself up to attract new and more positive friends. If you can't find positive people right now, your life may be too clogged with negative people
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NO positive ppl right now, all complainers and sufferers including myself. How do u recognise a Positive person? but sometime looks can be deceiving, I ve seen many people that goes around looking HAPPY but really, they have problems. Really shock most of the time to find out they are unhappy. So, how do u know if anyone is fulfilled, I cant tell, then how do i attract positive people if i cant judge if people are in positive state or not?