From the sounds of it, you're not on the friend list quite yet, though you're teetering on the edge. This whole "I can't date you because we're too much alike" is obviously a smokescreen for something else. What that "something else" is, I can't really know.
Could be that she's attracted to you and wants to date but is playing the weary "chase me" game. Why modern independent women turn themselves into objects like this I'll never understand, but the fact is that it's still very common.
Could be that she's involved with someone else and is conflicted.
Or it could be that she's playing you to satisfy her own ego.
My advice - for what it's worth - is to start dating other women, but stay in contact with her from time to time. If she insists on turning this into a "chase me" game, that tells you mountains about her personality and I'd avoid her as if she were Typhoid Mary. If she's with someone else, she'll have to make up her own mind in her own way on her own time, and there isn't much you can do to control that. Not much point waiting around for a "maybe," is there? And if it's an ego thing, dating other women will bring her back to reality a little bit.
Thing is, if she's as banging hot and cool as you say she is - and I have no reason to doubt your word here - then she's probably used to fending off a Niagara of men. Clearly, you're different and that's rocked her back on her stillettos a little bit and she probably isn't quite sure what to make of it, hence her smokescreen.
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