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FXTraderWill · 11-25-2007, 05:24 PM

So a few weeks ago I met this girl who goes to boarding school at my friend's house. She is banging hot 10/10 and very cool; we started talking online and we would have very entertaining comical conversations. Since she came back to the city from boarding school over thanksgiving break, we have hung out for almost all hours of every day. She keeps coming back to me, not the other way around, and I'm quite convinced she likes me a lot if she's not in full love with me. While it's possible that I'm naively imperctive here, I feel her vibes rather clearly. When we're together, all we do is flirt constantly. And she is the best challenge I've ever come across in a female - flirting with her is playing a world class game - I can't drop my guard for a second and I love it. She loves to be teased by me.

Normaly, with the above paragraph, things wold be a wrap for me. I'd get where I want.

Last night I honestly figured I would hookup with her, at the very least, by the end of the night. But she threw a cockblock out of (what seemed to me) like nowhere, saying that she couldn't hookup with or date me because my mind is too similar to hers. She then indirectly rejected my advances while giving off a sense of loving the power the situation had bestowed on her.

I know that she is very selective, but I also know I am more than good enough for her. I give her the best quality experience (by her own admission) that she could have when coming back to the city; she chooses to hang out with me over long-established friends even! I can't actually think of a girl who has been more aggressive in repeatedy seeing me than her.

Now I realize getting off the "friends" list is futile, but I made sure at every point along the way when confronted with a fork in the road to steer towards attraction-building. I was never too nice and never gave up weakness and I never stopped teasing her (with perfect timing, and it's always funny).

I'll be blunt here: this is the highest class woman I have ever dealt with and the challenge that has been posed to me has me questioning everything I thought I knew about male/female relationships. Has anyone been in this situation and does anyone have advice? I know by how she looks at me and seeks me out that she wants more than just friendship, but there is some sort of block.

11-25-2007, 05:24 PM	#1 (permalink)
FXTraderWill Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 22	Biggest Challenge Ever So a few weeks ago I met this girl who goes to boarding school at my friend's house. She is banging hot 10/10 and very cool; we started talking online and we would have very entertaining comical conversations. Since she came back to the city from boarding school over thanksgiving break, we have hung out for almost all hours of every day. She keeps coming back to me, not the other way around, and I'm quite convinced she likes me a lot if she's not in full love with me. While it's possible that I'm naively imperctive here, I feel her vibes rather clearly. When we're together, all we do is flirt constantly. And she is the best challenge I've ever come across in a female - flirting with her is playing a world class game - I can't drop my guard for a second and I love it. She loves to be teased by me. Normaly, with the above paragraph, things wold be a wrap for me. I'd get where I want. Last night I honestly figured I would hookup with her, at the very least, by the end of the night. But she threw a cockblock out of (what seemed to me) like nowhere, saying that she couldn't hookup with or date me because my mind is too similar to hers. She then indirectly rejected my advances while giving off a sense of loving the power the situation had bestowed on her. I know that she is very selective, but I also know I am more than good enough for her. I give her the best quality experience (by her own admission) that she could have when coming back to the city; she chooses to hang out with me over long-established friends even! I can't actually think of a girl who has been more aggressive in repeatedy seeing me than her. Now I realize getting off the "friends" list is futile, but I made sure at every point along the way when confronted with a fork in the road to steer towards attraction-building. I was never too nice and never gave up weakness and I never stopped teasing her (with perfect timing, and it's always funny). I'll be blunt here: this is the highest class woman I have ever dealt with and the challenge that has been posed to me has me questioning everything I thought I knew about male/female relationships. Has anyone been in this situation and does anyone have advice? I know by how she looks at me and seeks me out that she wants more than just friendship, but there is some sort of block.