Hey kid....It sounds like you're recognizing the "mirror" that these other kids are providing you with. This is good. These irritating factors... can you accept the parts of yourself that irritate you? Can you play with healing the anger and hostility inside yourself? Can you realize that these two people are so much more than the qualities that seem to get your attention? Would getting to know them more as beings, as opposed to just personalities make a difference? Maybe the why isn't as important as the how. How can you get to a place of acceptance? A strong wind is resistance, yet we walk into it sometimes to get to where we want to go. peace, emilee |