Angelwings,
I agree with impaul99. If you change such that you are no longer a vibrational match for your friends, they will drift away anyways. By cutting back on the time you spend with them, you will open yourself up to attract new and more positive friends. If you can't find positive people right now, your life may be too clogged with negative people. I also did like impaul99's suggestion that you can get positive input from books, and to that I would add you can get positive input from podcasts.
The first step to change is noticing how you feel. Do you like being with your current friends or not? Is there something else you like better? It can be hard to respect your own preferences and still come to them from a place of love, but I think that is the goal.
I had one friend that I hung out with a lot who was super negative and about a year after I got into PD he basically stopped talking to me. Now we talk once or twice a month at most. I was stressing about if I should see less of him, what I should do, and it just happened without effort. Remember that all your decisions are made in the present moment and try not to stress out too much about how it's going to work out or what you should do.
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