cdn2wheeler, Your story sounds like the ex that I was talking about. I was dumped but I know he still wants me back but wants to still play at the same time. Off course he would die if I was to to the samething with him if we were in an open relationship.
He was a player who got played by his own stupid game by falling bigtime in love with me. (which is abit no no for players) Hew was more into me thatn I was into him then his bubble bursted and he felt gulity for his messing around.
Anyways I told him that my door was always open to him as a friend only. However we have had some nasty words exchanged since we split but He was still ready like a lapp dog to come back to me. I know for a fact he will but I don't think I want him back because he is a bit to mad ...yes in the mental health sense for me to want him back. he is only 7 mins away an I know he will contact me again for a full on luv thang.

I know I can't love ihim in tha same way anymore. He is on the back burner but I have bigger fish to fry.