[Lychee]

"I-M church"? That's a new way of putting it. Do you think I-M runs counter to religion?

I'd also like to add that some psychologists believe that you become/experience what you put in your mind. Check out "Psycho-cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz. If you believe that you're not going to be liked in your mind, you will act like it. But if you put the picture in your mind of being strong and self-assured, you will act that way.