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Originally Posted by ixmatus  You are making things worse by hanging around with him, he obviously isn't man enough to stand up and reclaim his own happiness, why should you be associating with this 'I need mommy because I am too depressed' dude?
Be woman enough to reclaim your happiness and honor, it is but a thought away, and the person you become because of it will be far more powerful.
It is ridiculous that you hang around with this guy - there is so much out there for you; honor and love yourself. |
Thanks...I don't hang around with him anymore. As I wrote above, we got in another fight and we're not speaking. I haven't seen him since the fight either and by now we are pretty good at ignoring one another when passing by.
It's sad, because before I got to know him "too well", and when he is not being his miserable self, he is delightfully funny and uplifting.
I have got an enormous lift from this thread and all the people writing good substantial advice to me that I did something fun last night I haven't done in a few years, but used to do a lot and I feel pretty good. This is also due to the fact that I have found a solution to my "man" situation/problem that I feel quite happy and comfortable with
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