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Originally Posted by ixmatus  You're talking to them. |
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The advice you have been given is very good, let go of this depressive and strange sounding fellow - you are the company you keep. Lighten up and be easier about all of this.
Almost sounds like you should move! You would meet alot of men with similar ideas regarding sex/marriage in the religious community out here ('out here' as in USA). Although, when I was in India, every Indian guy I talked to said that pre-marital sex is much more common than most people think - mostly because it is taboo but no one will talk about it (why do you think they have such a crazy population?).
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ixmatus, Jim:
I'm "intending" to attract better people, friends, and to move away from this apartment where I cannot avoid this guy. I want to find more positive, upbeat people, more normal ones who don't only want something from me, but who actually like to be with me.
Until now, I have been attracting and drawn to guys like this one, who are suffering, because I want to comfort and help them (I used to be suffering a lot, depressed, suicidal, so when I see my suffering in someone else, I get a strong emotion in my heart), and as they see I am sensitive to them, they are drawn to me I guess, and I learn all of their miseries, but it becomes a circle and this guy in particular is more neurotic and hell-bent on his misery than anyone before, he is 100% impermeable to any feeling of love or concern I might have for him and there are many other problems about his behavior. He also treats me quite badly, as a fellow human, as a friend, or more.
Moreover, these past 2 weeks I have been trying to identify bad beliefs I have and change them, because I really don't like the kind of people I get in my life and I spend almost all my time alone and have done for years and years.
I was so afraid to post about this on here, but I am so thankful I did and I am so thankful for all the good and helpful responses I got. Thank you all so much .