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Originally Posted by JimOfferman  You should not think so much about avoiding attraction from the kind of man you don't want, but instead focus on attracting the type of man you do desire. |
Well, I agree in theory. In practice, I am not trying to get any man. What I have really been wanting for years are female friends. I was never able to make female friends. I would be satisfied just to have a few good female friends to spend time with and talk to about anything.
In the meantime, I guess I will try to stop focusing on the kind of men I don't want...or on men in general...? I always end up trying to settle for male friends, hence this thread.
Parthon: Thank you for the compliments. Despite the impression, I am not any more beautiful than other girls, and besides that I'm nearly 40, but I am in a country where fair skin and fair hair are rare and considered very beautiful (evidently). I wouldn't have this situation in other countries. But I stay here and wait for the one guy I came here for...the one my misguided spirit led me to
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