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Originally Posted by Bliss Sage  it isn't and hasn't ever really been a problem to find men attracted to my body and want sex, but to love me, to know me and understand me, this is where the problem is, so I deliberately want to and do downplay the physical. |
I don't think you'll attract the kind of man you are looking for (one who loves your body and your mind), if you downplay the physical.
You should not think so much about avoiding attraction from the kind of man you don't want, but instead focus on attracting the type of man you do desire.