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Originally Posted by Bliss Sage  I'm not looking for a relationship per se. Just... waiting... |
What are you waiting
FOR?
I just saw a few issues highlighted in your post/reply here. There seems to be a disconnect between yourself and your body, you even mentioned it yourself when you said "I am not your body." That statement is entirely true, but you do
have a body, but you seem totally afraid of it. I could be wrong, but the very experience of getting dazed and unconscious when your body took over, I'm thinking your body wanted him to continue but knew that you were just going to say no, so it got you out of the way, unsuccessfully thankfully.
I'm thinking you need to get back in touch with your own body, and start to appreciate and experience it more. You are not your body, but you have a body, and a body is one of the greatest instruments on the planet. There's not much a human body can't do.
As for men and their hunger, I do think because of our excess testosterone that we tend to focus more on the physical side of women early on, but as the desire is sated, then we get more interested in who it really is. Unfortunately it's a side effect of being male, even when we are intelligent and care about better things that sex, it still springs up on us from time to time. There are those men to be avoided who think about only sex, but more than half of us really do care who you are even if our hormones don't.
As for being distant and not dating. That's not going to work either. All the nice guys out there are only driven so far in order to meet someone, and as rare as we are, we don't last long until some woman catches us.
Only the guys that are bold enough to reach through to you, or those where you are bold enough to reach out to them will you meet. Unfortunately the first set of guys tend to be the sex crazed idiots you want to avoid and the latter are the self-pitying fools that try and turn everything into a drama. The whole thing is a matter of odds anyway. Say your perfect guy is 1 in a million. Then you have to meet a million guys to get your one. Learn how to say no to the other nine hundred and ninety nine thousand nine hundred and ninety nine.
Listen to your spirit, and not your mind or body, and you'll be led to the one you were meant to be with.