Hey Bliss,
I think you should consider changing your views a little, in particular this bit:
Quote:
Originally Posted by Bliss Sage  I am not my body and men are blinded by their eyes. |
You seem determined to find a man who
only cares about who you are on the inside and has no regard for the packaging.
The problem I see here: men simply don't work that way! Of course, I am generalizing here, there is bound to be someone somewhere who is the exception to the rule. Still:
Attraction, for me at least, works from the outside in. I take notice of a lady because of how she looks, how she carries herself. Physical attraction
always comes first for me. The physical attraction alone is not enough to really get me interested, though. There has to be substance below the nice exterior, if I am to grant her more than a few steely glances. In the end, I fall for someone because she is beautiful, smart, loving, tender, etc. But beauty does come first. All men I know feel this way.
If a man is attracted to your looks and to the feel of your body, that doesn't mean that he does not care about what is on the inside. I'd say that, in general, it is more the opposite. He'll be amazed that something so smart can come in such a nice package and be exhilarated that he is the one who gets to play with her.
love,
Jim.