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Originally Posted by ixmatus  It almost sounds like you're from India or Pakistan... |
No, I'm from North America like most people on this site, but I may currently be in a country
like India or Pakistan...
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Jekyll and Hyde is something you are going to find in any sexual being - it is natural. It happened to you in your 'daze', didn't it?
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No, when I was dazed, my behavior, feelings and personality didn't change and I was aware of him, who he was, us and what he was doing (though I was a bit stunned, as always), I just...felt faint and like I was going to fall asleep immediately or like I was going unconscious. I had enough strength and consciousness just to tell him not to do..."things". And once he quit, I lost consciousness, or blacked out (I thought).
I have now talked to him since and he told me that when he left, he told me he would take my key and the bottle of water in the fridge and he told me I actually answered him, but according to what I experienced, I was unconscious and have no recollection of him talking to me and certainly not of me responding to him.
Is that really hormones?
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Appreciate the men that find you attractive and want to have sex with you, love the man that wants to have sex with you AND walk with you through life.
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yes...
that was so nicely put
but I can't tell one from the other, as the former will lead me to believe they are the latter one just to get something from me...actually, I don't want or like the former and I just want to skip them and go to the latter one...
In fact, I have now had (another) fight with this guy and ... I think everything is over now, "friendship" and the "relationship" that, according to him, we never even had because he says he was never interested in me. Yet he put me through torture all these past months with his neurotic behaviors, and spent so much time, flirting, flattering me and making me laugh too. From the start I knew he was bad for me, because he is a joker, I mean, everything out of his mouth is a "joke" and on more than one occasion (that I am aware of) he has hurt me a lot because he would be telling me a story that I believed and then he would tell me he was just joking. If it's true that he was never interested in me for anything, not even a relationship or anything, then I know that even most of everything he has ever said to me was just a joke, all that I believed was true.
This pain is why I wait for physical intimacy...but I'm even too weak to avoid physical intimacy, or else too stunned when confronted with the situation if it arises.
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The evolutionary and biological reasons should be evident, but, I do hope if you think about it, you may have some valuable insights into the sexuality of men.
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I would much rather have insights into their intentions and the sincerity of their behavior with me at any given moment of interaction with them. And then if they would not lie about them later on...