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Originally Posted by ShyBeliever  Hi everybody.
After all this i have 2 questions:
1- Where do you think is better to focus more? To focus more in trying to get a girlfriend and a larger social life? Or is it better to focus more in a construction of a solid professional career which can give me confidence for a happier and more fullfilling social life? (Which is what im doing now)
2- Is it possible to get the most of the 3 worlds? I mean... is it possible to manage my time and my schedule in order to focus in my career, social life/girls and World of Warcraft  in a balanced way? |
Hi ShyBeliever,
The areas of your life, just like the areas of everyone elses lives, are interconnected
Your career is connected to your social life, which is connected to your physical health, which is connected to your spirituality, which are connected to your finances and so on for the other areas of your life.
If your social life is lacking it is going to affect every part of your life. Perhaps say that you are in a job that you do not believe in, you dont believe that your work is making a difference and it really goes against your values, you have to 'turn off' the value which is conflicting with your career, when you go to work.
As such your spirituality is affecting your career, and as such not enjoying your career in this way, you will find it affecting your physical health because you are stressed, your finances because you are not doing your work well, your social life because you are disatisfied with your career and if reflects in your personality and so on.
You may have noticed that when you have a bad day, it is a really bad day. Thats because when something goes wrong it one part of your life, it echoes throughout the other parts of your life, and you also notice that when you correct this everything seems to get much better.
I would suggest to you to look into loving yourself first, try dating yourself. It is hard, or near impossible for someone to like, let alone love you if you can't even do that to yourself.
In answering your second question, you can find balance, thats what life is all about. Personally, i found that i could not strike up a balance with computer games because of their 'instant gratification' type enjoyment (linked with around 6 years of solid gaming). But everyone is different, and some will have better control than i managed to find.
So if anything you can get out of my post, i would suggest look into finding deep an meaningful satisfaction in every part of your life, do what you love to do and the universe will sort out the details.
Good references:
How Intentions Manifest Cause Effect Vs Intention Manifestation
Good luck