Interesting thoughts Lisa. Basically you're saying that hearing or seeing the name/place, only has meaning that I GIVE to it, it doesn't mean this other person is thinking of me as well or anything like that, it's just a case of me seeing my dominant thoughts.
This is probably a huge shock but the name I am discussing is someone I want to be in a relationship with, that's why there's enough emotional energy to keep seeing/hearing the name all over the damn place. This person is out of my life for the time being, and I'm torn between just letting go or trying to maintain my own "mental connection" to them. And I see the name everywhere and can't tell if it means to not give up or.... yeah I'm nuts. Before LOA I would just move on. I sense some resistance here.
But the synkros happened, coincidences whatever, so I attracted it. And I'm attracting this too, I just want to be doing it for the right reasons.